Create Your Own AI Girlfriend In 3D, Exactly Your Type
Most AI girlfriend apps let you pick an avatar and fill in a few sliders. On SecretWaifu you bring a real 3D character: any VRoid model, imported from VRoid Hub or designed by you in VRoid Studio. You decide how she looks, how she thinks and talks, and where your story together begins.
Once she is uploaded she is a playable 3D AI girlfriend with an uncensored AI chat, lipsync and the same interactive scenes as every other girl, in your browser, on Windows or in VR. SecretWaifu is for adults 18 and older.
Step 1: Get a VRoid model
Every SecretWaifu character is a VRoid model, the same 3D anime format many VTubers use. There are two ways to get one. The quickest is to search VRoid Hub right from our upload page and import a model directly into the form. Her character page then links back to the original model on VRoid Hub.
If you want her to be completely yours, design her in VRoid Studio. You shape her face, eyes, hair, body and outfit yourself, then export the result as a VRM file. That file is everything SecretWaifu needs to bring her to life.
Step 2: Upload her to SecretWaifu
Sign in with a verified email and open the upload page. Drop in your VRM file, up to 100 MB, and SecretWaifu captures a preview image from the model for you. You can recapture it until you like the shot.
Then give her a name and a tag line, the short line that shows under her name on character cards, and a description for her profile. These are the details other players see first if you decide to share her.
Step 3: Write who she is
This is where an AI girlfriend generator stops and SecretWaifu keeps going. In the personality field you describe how she thinks, speaks and reacts: shy or bold, sweet or teasing, a tsundere who will never admit she likes you. The uncensored AI follows what you write.
The scenario sets the situation the two of you start in, and the first message is the line she opens with. You can style it so her actions and spoken words look different on screen. Optional example dialogs show the AI exactly how she sounds, which is the easiest way to keep her in character.
Step 4: Give her a voice
A 3D girlfriend should sound like herself. You can upload a WAV voice clip with your character, and she speaks her replies out loud in that voice, with lipsync on her 3D model. You can change the clip later whenever you like.
Step 5: Write stories for her
Each girl can have as many stories as you want to write. A story has its own title, scenario and first message, and it decides where you meet and who she is to you. You also choose the starting relationship: start as strangers and win her over, skip ahead to girlfriend or lover, or begin as rivals with a love-hate tension.
Stories work for any public girl too, not only your own. Keep a story private for yourself, or submit it so other players can play it once it is approved. Need ideas? Browse the AI girlfriends and read the stories the community already wrote.
Keep her private or share her
When you save her you choose who can see her. A private character is only for you and is ready to play right away. Hidden and public characters are reviewed by our team first. A public girl gets her own profile page, and if players love her she can climb the hottest AI girlfriends ranking.
You can keep improving her after upload. From your characters page you can swap in a new VRM file, change her name, tag line, description, voice and thumbnail, or change who can see her.
Play with her in your browser, on PC or in VR
Your own girl works everywhere SecretWaifu does. Start in your browser with nothing to install, or download the Windows build for the best quality. One account keeps her, your stories and your progress on every platform.
With a headset she stands in front of you at life size, on Meta Quest or any SteamVR headset. The VR AI girlfriend page shows what that looks like, and the 3D AI girlfriend page explains how voice, stories and relationships work in game.
More ThanAI Chat
SecretWaifu is built as a playable 3D girlfriend experience, not just another text box with a character profile.
| SecretWaifu | Other AI Platforms |
|---|---|
| 3D AI girlfriend experience | -Mostly text chat only |
| Browser, Windows, PCVR, and Oculus Quest play | -Usually browser or mobile only. |
| Interactive NSFW hentai scenes | -Mostly written roleplay with badly generated videos |
| VRoid character support | -Thumbnail preview only |
| Voice with lipsync | -AI Assistant-like voices |
| Stories, voices, and deeper customization | -Usually basic chat settings. |
Frequently Asked Questions
What do I need to create my own AI girlfriend?+
A SecretWaifu account with a verified email and a VRoid model in VRM format. You can import a model from VRoid Hub on the upload page, or make one yourself in VRoid Studio and export it as a VRM file.
Which file formats can I upload?+
Characters are uploaded as VRM files of up to 100 MB. Voice clips are uploaded as WAV files.
Can I use a model from VRoid Hub?+
Yes. Search VRoid Hub from the upload page and import a model straight into the form. Her character page links back to the original model on VRoid Hub.
Can I change her personality later?+
Yes, through stories. Each story carries its own personality, scenario and first message, so you can write new stories for her at any time. Her name, tag line, description, voice, thumbnail and model can be edited from your characters page.
Can I keep my AI girlfriend private?+
Yes. Private characters and private stories are only visible to you and do not need a review. Public characters and stories are checked by our team before other players can see them.
Does my own character work in VR?+
Yes. Your character works in the browser, in the Windows build, on PCVR through SteamVR and standalone on Meta Quest, with the same stories and progress on your account.
Do my chats carry over between browser, PC and VR?+
Yes. Your conversations, characters and progress are saved in the cloud on your account, so you can start in the browser and continue on Windows, PCVR or Oculus Quest.
What payment options are available?+
You can subscribe through Patreon or use SecretWaifu billing directly. Direct billing is often slightly cheaper because VAT is included in the displayed price.